Self-Empowerment Tips

Self-Empowerment Tips

Self-empowerment is such a small word with such a big meaning, I will try to explain how I  self-empower myself everyday. I will describe to you some simple tips that you can follow to live a much happier life. There is so much to say on this, so I  will just let my mind write. Many people think self-empowerment is something for people in depression. That’s not always true, you can live the life of your dreams, if you dedicate yourself to get there.

Self empowerment

First rule, you are the captain of your ship. Don’t let anyone decide what you have to do, but don’t be a stupid arrogant jerk. 🙂 Listen to what other people have to say, but think for yourself.

Second rule, what other people think about you is their problem, not your’s. You can’t get yourself down because of what other people say or think about you. Don’t even bother trying to change them either.

You can’t change anybody;  you can only change yourself. This is easy to say, but hard to implement. We all have situations where we would like the other people to act differently. Well, let’s not get mad with those situations or people. Next time let’s do things differently so that other people don’t react the same negative way as before.

More into self-empowerment, most people believe in God, and put all the hopes in the universe in “him”. Well let’s change our focus and let’s say God, helps those who help themselves. I’m not saying I don’t believe in God. I am more into Buddhism. I believe that we are all gods. We all are so powerful! When you start to unfold the power of your mind you will be so amazed with what the world will give you. You will feel like you’re living in a dream, living in paradise.

Self-Empowerment : The Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction is a belief that is part of self-empowerment. We are masters of our destiny. We are what we think. This is so true. Let me give you more direct tip on this. We must start with little things to realize the power of the universe. Let’s see it as a exercise of playing the life game using our mind.

What I will advise you is that when you go to sleep tonight focus on something you would like to see in the next day. Let’s say for example I would like to see a dolphin, and the next day open your mind and be receptive. Open your eyes and find that dolphin you asked the universe to show you. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you will see an actual real life dolphin. The universe rearranges as it can to give you what you want. You may see a picture of a dolphin, a t-shirt with a dolphin, or various other ways to see a dolphin. The universe is smart, and will show you what you want to see.

When you see this happen you probably will say coincidence… 😉


Well one day a friend asked me, “Fábio do you believe in coincidences?” I  answered, “Yeah, I believe in coincidences. Everybody knows coincidences happen.”

He told me, “I also used to believe in coincidences, until there started to be too many.”

This makes some sense. Maybe we, at some subconscious way, are creating this coincidences for ourselves. Let’s try to control them. Let’s take the control and guide through the universe. 🙂 Since that day I have felt so empowered and realized that it was me creating things for myself. I’m responsible for whatever happens in my life, whether I realize that or not. 🙂

That’s why I’m a Buddha fan. I found in Buddhism all of the answers to what I was feeling  and all that i was seeing in life.

Now when I hear someone say anything is possible, I know that it really is!

Using this train of thoughts, let’s not ask for dolphins. Let’s ask for self-empowerment. Let’s ask for the will to learn something, the will to do something, and be receptive to that something. Let’s walk in this way through life.

This is my first post. Stay connected and I will reveal more. 🙂

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